Self-Love

And no, I don't mean masturbation! In a Yahoo group that I belong to, MenEmpowered, someone asked us to define "self-love". Attached to the post were selected definitions of self-love. The definitions mostly centered around selfishness and narcissism. I initially understood the question, "what is self-love" to be about how do you love yourself. We talk so much in our society about loving oneself